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A topic that i wanted to pen down here since a long time but never attempted it for the short of words I had towards it.
The 20 years old I was confident enough to go through labor and responsible enough to up bring a child. The people here on social media come to me with questions like why?
Can I please tell them they are no answers for your WHY’s?
Why it is a mother’s age even a factor to determine if she can have a baby?
A mother is born when a child is given birth. A women knows her responsibility as soon as she knows there is another life inside her body. Age is just the number. If a mother can go through the hardest and painful thing called LABOR, you’re not aware of the power she has inside her.
There is nothing like a perfect age to get pregnant and have a baby. If its 18 or 35, unless your body is in a good healthy condition you are good to go. It’s actually your body, your mind and your heart which should be ready to accept the challenge coming ahead. Upbringing a child is not everyone’s cup of tea. That’s why most of the time its women who sacrifice their dream job, their leisure, their sound sleep to give time and attention to their child.
We women are born with a super power to grow a baby inside us. That is the miracle of god and no women will ever accept the fact that it’s an easy-going process. It takes enough courage to even think about it. An example of courage,
In India the average children in a family is usually two. So imagine when a mother gives birth to the first one she knows very clearly the pain she goes through yet again she becomes mother for the second time without even giving a thought of the pain she went through with the first one.
If the switch board has got some electric issues and you touch it by mistakenly, would you mind to touch the electric shock again? Well, that’s what happens when a mother goes through the labor for the second time. Yet she forgets the pain when the tiny baby is wrapped around her arms.
That’s how beautiful a women’s heart is.
The society thinks she is weak, her sole responsibility is to take care of the house or the kids, and she has no rights to give her opinion on any issues.
Every women deserves to be treated well. There are stay at home mums(sahm), working mum, mompreneur, mom who work at home, women who work late, women who work very early, women in the fields, women flying a plane etc. we see women in all fields these days and it is a proud moment for a nation like India where a woman was kept out of the house for the five days every month.
“A women is like a tea bag you can’t tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water”
The quote explains it all.
So ladies, you’re already doing a fab job.
As a mother, as a sister, as a wife, as a daughter
AS A WOMAN.
No one knows what is good for you except your creator alone.
Trust your instincts and follow your dream.
(a woman will never forget her responsibility of taking care her family)
This post is a part of the #MomsSpeakUp blog train hosted by prisha and nayantra .
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That’s it for now guys,
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